Jan
2013
An Unexpected Goodbye
This weekend has been yet another reminder that you really never know what the day will bring. I expected to be posting today about how I dropped off the dog toys at the shelters and how I spent the weekend enjoying our glorious weather…but no, life had other things in mind.
Yesterday morning when Jared and I had just gotten to the park for a morning dog walk, we got a call that there was a death in Jared’s family. At his request, I’ll keep the details private.
All I’ll say is that no matter how old someone is and even though death is an inevitable part of life, it’s still tough and hard and unexpected.
We spent the day together processing it, talking to family and making travel plans.
We went to the beach at sunset.
It was an absolutely beautiful night.
And said some prayers.
Then we drank a rootbeer float because it’s what they did together often.
And now we are off to Florida for a very short 48 hours from takeoff till landing back in SF.
So just saying, I prob won’t post again until Tuesday night. But enjoy life, make the most of it and go see sunsets as much as possible!
Talk to you soon!
-Have you ever had to fly across country suddenly for a funeral? the airlines are no help in cutting costs, sheesh.
Rootbeer float or milkshake?
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[...] January was a big month for me. I planned 80% of our wedding– we signed venue contract, booked photographer, dj, florist, limo, bus, hotel room block and hair/makeup person, bought my dress, chose bridesmaid dresses, ordered the invitations, and more. Whew. I threw a huge dog toy charity event….and since then have expanded the organization and have some exciting things in the works. We went to Tahoe. I discovered my new favorite workout obsession (kickboxing- I look forward to it all week). I subbed at Sunday School (the kids are so cute). I saw that guy die at my gym right before my eyes. And then, of course, Jared’s grandma died and we flew back to Florida unexpectedly a few days ago. [...]
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Michelle @ Eat Move Balance
January 27, 2013 at 11:52 am (116 days ago)I’m sorry to hear about the bad news. Travel safely, and find comfort in being with family at this time. Take care!
Alex @ therunwithin
January 27, 2013 at 11:55 am (116 days ago)I am so sorry, you and your family are in my prayers! Travel safely and cherish the time with family
Luv What You Do
January 27, 2013 at 12:01 pm (116 days ago)I am so sorry for your loss! Sending hugs your way during this difficult time! We ended up driving out to NY when my uncle past 2 days before my 30th birthday. Times like this are so heartbreaking, but spending time with family can be special and comforting in unforseen ways. Take Care!
Runner Girl Eats
January 27, 2013 at 12:33 pm (116 days ago)So sorry for your loss. I love that you went out for rootbeer floats. When my grandfather passed away I went out to shoot pool because that’s we always liked to do and I didn’t really know how else to process it. It definitely made me feel happy to do something he would have enjoyed.
Jodea @ chillichocolatelove
January 27, 2013 at 1:27 pm (116 days ago)I’m sorry to hear that. I hope everything goes okay.
Milkshake.
Life After Swimming
January 27, 2013 at 1:51 pm (116 days ago)So sorry to hear about your loss. Hope travels are all safe! And milkshake for sure!
Becky @ Olives n Wine
January 27, 2013 at 3:55 pm (116 days ago)I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
loseitbig
January 27, 2013 at 3:55 pm (116 days ago)Sorry for your loss. I like both drinks
AmyS
January 27, 2013 at 6:56 pm (115 days ago)Sorry for your loss. Hopefully time with family is enjoyable even in these hard times. I know this won’t help much but some (most?) airlines will offer a discount/rebate if you can show a death certificate; my brother did that when our grandpa died. Last minute flights are crazy so it could help a little…
jessielovestorun
January 27, 2013 at 7:25 pm (115 days ago)I am so sorry to hear about the news. Please know my prayers are with both you, Jared & his family through this rough time. Safe travels hunnie <3
katalysthealth
January 28, 2013 at 6:14 am (115 days ago)Wow thats horrible. I will def be keeping you and your man in my prayers, as well as his family. Losing someone is never a good experience, especially when it is so unexpected. Hang in there!
Jorie
January 28, 2013 at 6:19 am (115 days ago)I’m so sorry. You are absolutely right that it doesn’t matter the age of the person — it’s still so hard to process. My thoughts are with you and Jared!
Jessica @ Fit Talker
January 28, 2013 at 6:42 am (115 days ago)I echo the sentiments of everyone else here. My thoughts are with you and Jared and the family.
Safe travels!
Laurie @ Love, Laugh, Laurie
January 28, 2013 at 9:06 am (115 days ago)I’m so sorry to hear this, it’s never easy! You are in my prayers!
Natalie @ Free Range Human
January 28, 2013 at 9:15 am (115 days ago)I’m so sorry for you and Jared. Travel safe, and I hope that you guys are able to grieve and receive the peace you need.
helennaturally
January 28, 2013 at 12:11 pm (115 days ago)My concolences to both you and Jared! I will keep the family in prayer.
Terra Kroll
January 28, 2013 at 1:18 pm (115 days ago)sorry love.
I had to fly to FL unexpectedly in August. Generally speaking, the airlines were not very helpful.
I hate root beer, but if you switch it out for orange soda, I’ll go for that.
Love & Light.
Jen@HealthyFoodandFamily
January 28, 2013 at 5:04 pm (115 days ago)So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. xoxo
Apples and Arteries
January 29, 2013 at 8:42 am (114 days ago)Sorry to hear about your loss.
Rebecca
January 30, 2013 at 8:06 am (113 days ago)Thank you!
Molly
January 29, 2013 at 10:19 am (114 days ago)I’m very sorry to hear about a death in the family. You’re right, no matter the person’s age or situation, it’s still very difficult to deal with
Rebecca
January 30, 2013 at 8:06 am (113 days ago)Thanks, Molly!
Meghan@CleanEatsFastFeets
January 29, 2013 at 5:08 pm (114 days ago)Im so sorry to hear about your loss. It doesn’t matter how or when, it’s always hard. I’ll be thinking of you and wishing you safe travels.
Root beer floats always remind me of my grandmother. We used to drink them together all the time.
Rebecca
January 30, 2013 at 8:06 am (113 days ago)Thanks, Meghan!